- Selling my company stock so I can pay for divorce and refi the house.
- Refi the house so I can tell the ex to sign here, here, here, and here. Now get the fuck out!!
- Get the oil changed in my truck, so I don't have to walk everywhere I go.
- Do some Christmas shopping. With my looks apparently.
- Get my boys for more than a couple of hours.
- Go see my Grandma P. in the nursing home. I mean I am her favorite.
- Do something with my friend before I lose her to the magic of Disney World.
- Take movies back.
- Wash clothes.
- Cook a meal instead of eating out!!!
Friday, December 4, 2009
Separation: Day 164
Today I was supposed to go to a court mandated class to learn how to be a parent. I have only been one for ten years now so you would think that I'd have the hang of it by now. That is just my case though I am sure everybody knows somebody that needs this class. First off it is a class that everyone in the state of Georgia has to take when getting a divorce (if they have kids). So it's not like they are questioning my parenting skills they just want my fifty bucks. Just another expense I can chalk up to the soon to be ex. Anyway....I left the house with plenty time to spare to get to the meeting. I had printed directions, GPS, directions from a cop, and a lifeline (my friend was a phone call away). Guess what? I never found the mo-flippin place and I was like majorly pissed. I was looking at myself in the rear view cussing myself for everything I was worth. I actually felt kinda bad when I got done with all that cussing. Because there was several good words I left out!!!! So I missed this date. A hour over there and a hour back. Half tank of gas blowed all to hell and back!! There are so many things I am putting off that when I stop to think about it I get sick.
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I think thats a pretty good law (if thats what it is) that people have to take parenting classes...
ReplyDeleteI mean most families one parent is the main care giver and the other is just there for fun... So making people take a parenting class probably would help the neglectful parents.
But i dont think its something that you should have to pay for- hellllllo government where are taxes going?!?!
I had to take a parenting class when I got divorced and it was a J-O-K-E! Hopefully your state does a better job than KY does.
ReplyDeleteHang in there, the holidays are rough...financially and emotionally. Sounds like you have a loving family and great friends as your support network. That's awesome, everybody needs people like that!!
How frustrating - sorry to hear! ...but, GUESS WHAT?! ...that's over & today is a NEW day. :)
ReplyDeleteThe way you say things makes me laugh, thanks. LOL.
Make it a FUN, PRODUCTIVE weekend!
By the way...it's a deal...since you have no direct connection to me, e-mail me [nyyankee1fan@hotmail.com] with your FB link & you'll be invited to learn & see more of yours truly. :)
Oh yeah, regarding the TMI tidbit...
ReplyDelete193 days, eh? That was the case while IN my marriage. UGH.
That just means, when it happens again, it'll feel EXTRAORDiNARiLY AMAZiNG! :D
I remember 'The Class'. In MA you can't take the same one as your soon to be Ex. I think some of the people in my class could have used a semester of this drivel not just the few hours.
ReplyDeleteGood luck...it'll get better. :)
I was so excited to feel my Crackberry vibrate with an email from you & your FB link last night, but no such luck... :(
ReplyDeleteI LOVE reading your blog!!:) You are an awesome writer and sooo get your point across.:) I am actually a funny person too, but not feeling in the "funny kind of mood" lately. Just wait til I get my sense of humor back a bit more!!:)
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