tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post574270944672485131..comments2023-03-30T05:54:45.527-07:00Comments on A Life Apart: Separation: Day 106Shane Phttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00688452372700283855noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-1649083145522967092009-10-07T15:13:57.338-07:002009-10-07T15:13:57.338-07:00P.S. You make me laugh! Thanks for all your commen...P.S. You make me laugh! Thanks for all your comments... ;Pstillarockstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18171024298297107314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-27213017002985974462009-10-06T22:01:45.243-07:002009-10-06T22:01:45.243-07:00Again, it's TOTALLY OKAY to cry! You would fee...Again, it's TOTALLY OKAY to cry! You would feel worse if you didn't...& she needs to see that. It's completely normal to have reacted the way both of you did considering the circumstances - you're both running high on emotional stress!<br /><br />I'm SO SORRY you had such a bad confrontation, especially after you said you were doing pretty well. I think the limited communication is a good idea until things are a little calmer...<br /><br />One recommendation is to do everything you can to keep your boys AWAY from these confrontations - that will only make the already difficult situation for them even worse. You two are the adults in this situation - they have little, innocent eyes & ears that don't understand everything. Keep an eye on them, too...if you see any crazy change of behavior later on, don't hesitate to consider a child counselor or the school counselor. Also make sure they know your divorce isn't THEIR fault...many kids think that. :(<br /><br />God bless, hang in there. You WiLL survive! :Dstillarockstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18171024298297107314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-6219720382404255572009-10-06T08:25:21.689-07:002009-10-06T08:25:21.689-07:00Sometimes you have to freak out and cry and yell d...Sometimes you have to freak out and cry and yell damn it! Oh well if she saw it. It was real! Those are your feelings and they are something that is incredibly difficult to hide. <br /><br />You're going to be alright my friend.Courthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15736828300253434852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-45490451809409230872009-10-06T06:21:06.478-07:002009-10-06T06:21:06.478-07:00Hi Shane, I have been trying to catch up on my rea...Hi Shane, I have been trying to catch up on my reading on blogger - read your last few posts.. was shocked to read about the other man in your wife's life.. it must have been awful hard to find out about it. I don't know what a divorce feels like but I have had my share of heart aches and I realize it's pretty hard to go through with something like this.. this will sound cliche but it will get better with time.. you WILL look back one day and realize that you are not hurting anymore, all of this will be behind you one day - if anything you'll be a much stronger person for having faced all of it. Until then, just take it one day at a time and take the support and help of as many friends and family as you can get...Miss OverThinkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06286860942975359330noreply@blogger.com