tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post4363052723957519742..comments2023-03-30T05:54:45.527-07:00Comments on A Life Apart: Separation: Day 174Shane Phttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00688452372700283855noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-36476150823687914942009-12-27T10:46:49.798-08:002009-12-27T10:46:49.798-08:00Im sure u hv done dem proud....
agree with cindy.....Im sure u hv done dem proud....<br />agree with cindy..cuz u never knw...<br />So be happy n keep moving for luv cums to those who believe it...<br />cheers to Life!!Naveenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10957580066079846622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-24354645168246031582009-12-26T17:54:22.671-08:002009-12-26T17:54:22.671-08:00What a sweet story Shane! I've thought of how ...What a sweet story Shane! I've thought of how I will carry the memory of my family one day. Although I don't agree with your statement: "There is no doubt in my mind that had both my parents been living that I wouldn't be going through a divorce." There's absolutely no way of knowing this so there's absolutely no way you could be certain of it. In fact, you may have stayed in a very unhappy situation to avoid disappointing your parents... In the end, I agree that they would have wanted you to be happy - both of you... all four of you.Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00400632986764577294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-47919491286278357452009-12-16T13:10:31.905-08:002009-12-16T13:10:31.905-08:00I completely agree with stillarockstar on this one...I completely agree with stillarockstar on this one. I am sure your parents would have been completely proud of you, divorce or no divorce. You seem like a very nice person and you should never let the ordeal of this divorce make you feel otherwise..<br /><br />I can't really comment on the church thing cuz I am not religious but you should keep doing it if it gives you strength.Miss OverThinkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06286860942975359330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-6707593479471655652009-12-16T01:12:18.348-08:002009-12-16T01:12:18.348-08:00@Jessie: Thanks for checking in! Times like these ...@Jessie: Thanks for checking in! Times like these it's good to have some good blogging buddies for backup!<br /><br />@rockstar: You are right. Mom and Dad would have wanted me to be happy no matter what. Thanks for the encouragement!!Shane Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00688452372700283855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-20832564278669851772009-12-14T09:09:42.278-08:002009-12-14T09:09:42.278-08:00I have NO DOUBT you have done them PROUD. ...you s...I have NO DOUBT you have done them PROUD. ...you sounds like a FANTASTiC father & that is your MOST IMPORTANT job! :) <br /><br />You are also staying very OPTiMiSTiC for someone who is not only going through divorce, but has lost both of his parents...I cannot imagine. YOU are VERY SPECIAL!!!<br /><br />Keep up the church-going, it is a Savior in more ways than one. :)<br /><br />Regarding divorce & religious beliefs: I would guess, as most parents do, they would have wanted you to live a HAPPY life. GOD wants you to live a HAPPY life. Not one lived with an unfaithful wife who doesn't appreciate or respect you. You cannot control the other person in a marriage. There are even contradictory verses in the Bible on whether Mary & Joseph were even married when JESUS was born...<br /><br />Have a super week! :)stillarockstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18171024298297107314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-79862410951105948272009-12-14T08:16:26.741-08:002009-12-14T08:16:26.741-08:00I'm sorry you are going through something so e...I'm sorry you are going through something so emotionally stressful/draining and don't have your parents there to lean on. That made me feel sad for you when I read that. It's obvious how much you love and respect them. Thinking of you pal.Jessiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05202655106864377587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-78066050414835080412009-12-14T03:55:08.889-08:002009-12-14T03:55:08.889-08:00@Frannie: thanks! Your words mean a lot. Forward i...@Frannie: thanks! Your words mean a lot. Forward is the direction I hope to move.Shane Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00688452372700283855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-413769552494322475.post-40165062160628963442009-12-14T03:42:13.809-08:002009-12-14T03:42:13.809-08:00The biggest hurdle for me when I got divorced was ...The biggest hurdle for me when I got divorced was not the actual leaving, although that was tough, but how disappointed my parents would be in me.<br /><br />When I actually told them, they said, I can't believe you staid this long. Sometimes what we think our parents think and what they actually do are two totally different things. I was so worried about their disappointment that I forgot to ask for their help.<br /><br />This will not be the end of the world for you. Head up, eyes in front, because that's the way you're going to move from now on. <br /><br />Forward.FRANNIEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13186288113171820268noreply@blogger.com